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The Confidence on stilettos blog is where women go to be empowered and gain the necessary tools and resourses to achieve her goals, dreams and to elevate her habits to show up bigger, braver & Bolder in life & in business

The Cost of Being Too Nice? Your Sanity. Here’s How to Reclaim It
Let’s get straight to it: always being more than accommodating is costing you your peace, your energy, and quite frankly, your glow. The...
Laketta Willis
Feb 113 min read
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Intentions, Boundaries, and Gratitude: My Daily Formula for Winning at Life
Let’s get one thing straight: everyone has their own version of success, whether it's being the next Beyoncé, the CFO of a Fortune 500...
makeiimage
Jan 282 min read
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Level Up Your Life: The Power of Breaking Bad Habits on Auto-Pilot
Sis, let me tell you something: your habits are either setting you up for the glow-up of your life or keeping you stuck in the same old...
Laketta Willis
Jan 212 min read
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The Truth About Self-Worth vs. Self-Esteem: Stop Confusing the Two and Reclaim Your Power
Photography By: The Art of Po Photography Self-Worth vs. Self-Esteem—Know the Difference and Take Your Power Back Truthfully, we all...
Laketta Willis
Oct 23, 20243 min read
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Sis, You’re Not Busy—You’re Just Distracted: How Time Blocking Got Me Off the Hamster Wheel
Distraction, distraction after dang distraction. Huuunty, get focused! Do you want to achieve your goals or nawl? That’s what I ask...
Laketta Willis
Oct 18, 20244 min read
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Stop Letting Other People's Doubts Write Your Story
We’ve all been there—listening to a narrator, whether it’s in a book, movie, or life itself, weaving a tale that pulls you in, guiding...
Laketta Willis
Sep 25, 20243 min read
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Lessons in Loss: How Grief Transforms and Heals
Some life lessons don’t come with a cute little syllabus or a step-by-step guide. Nope. Some lessons punch you in the gut, leave you...
Laketta Willis
Sep 20, 20243 min read
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Why It's Important to Forgive Yourself: Healing Journey
Healing truly hurts and it’s for this very reason that you must let the pain come in waves and handle each wave as it comes. When you...
Laketta Willis
Oct 4, 20232 min read
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Imperfect In Love: New Goals
Love is such a beautiful, yet scary emotion to navigate and understand. It’s defined differently by everyone which is absolutely amazing...
Laketta Willis
May 11, 20233 min read
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It's Time to Own Your Life & Power
In Today's YouTube video I give you insight and tips about owning your life and power unapologetically. You only have one life to live so...
Laketta Willis
May 3, 20231 min read
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Let Go & Surrender
The one thing I’m learning to do is let go and surrender. We hear that phrase of “life is too short” very often and it always makes you...
Laketta Willis
Apr 20, 20233 min read
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4 Tips to Show Up Confident in LIFE!
Confidence is that secret sauce that we all could use a little more of. I know at times you think your confidence is low but truthfully...
Laketta Willis
Apr 9, 20232 min read
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4 Tips that Will Keep You Honest With Yourself
It’s so weird how we so often lie to ourselves. Things and situations, we could’ve long moved on from we keep ourselves grounded in. It...
Laketta Willis
Mar 21, 20233 min read
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5 Ways to Motivate Yourself to Take Action
We’ve all been there before, the alarm clock goes off and we roll over to press the snooze button. Just a few more minutes and you’ll be...
Laketta Willis
Mar 14, 20234 min read
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It's Time to Be Honest With Yourself
It’s so weird how we so often lie to ourselves. Things and situations, we could’ve long moved on from we keep ourselves grounded in. It...
Laketta Willis
Mar 9, 20233 min read
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Rejection is Definitely Your Protection
Life is full of teaching moments, however by the time the assignment is being explained I’m shouting “this is a bunch of ol’ b.s.!” I...
Laketta Willis
Mar 7, 20234 min read
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Just Be You! Self Care Edition
I swear that in this season of my life I don’t have time for the B.S. I don’t want any fake B.S. around me. If you have to turn on a...
Laketta Willis
Mar 2, 20232 min read
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Can You Truly Manifest Your Dream Man?
We all have them and please don’t try and hide your face as if you’re not sitting on a "build a man list", too…LOL. Yes! That “build a...
Laketta Willis
Feb 28, 20234 min read
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Only You Can Do This: 8 Ways To Get Your Motivation Back
I know how it is, the burn out is real, the pandemic is real, the mental exhaustion is hella real. We all go through it. It’s hard to be...
Laketta Willis
Feb 23, 20233 min read
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I'm Too Busy Woman-ing: Self-Care Edition
Yaass Sis! I’m too busy woman-ing! With this opening to this blog you already know to sit back and get your favorite drink that you like...
Laketta Willis
Feb 21, 20233 min read
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